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September 28, 2004

Keyes: No Denials

Newsradio 780 in Chicago has gotten some soundbites, (via Chillinois), of Alan Keyes saying he would address questions regarding his daughter's sexuality at an "appropriate venue" making no attempts to deny the situation. The Il GOP Chairwoman also commented, stating she believes the children of candidates should be left out of campaigns.

Based on this reaction, I am 96% sure the story is true - not it just remains to see how it's handled. I would agree with the GOP Party chair were it not for several things:

If Maya wasn't working for the campaign but was in Rhode Island at school, then she should be left alone: completely. Some good points have been made at other sites - perhaps Keyes knew Maya was showing her support on the campaign by wearing so much rainbow accessories. Perhaps Maya subtly wanted people to find her site in hopes that the media would get back at her father for how he treated her. We may never know.

Time to sit back and see what happens.


Mother Nature Having a Bad Month

Just heard news of a M6.0 earthquake just outside Parksfield, CA with 34 aftershocks - 4 of them being 4,0 or greater, in the past hour.

That combined with the fact that there is enough increased activity around Mount Saint Helens to warrant an official "Notice of Volcanic Unrest" - alongside all of the hurricanes making landfall in the US - really make you wonder what's going on. All that's missing is some avalanches, extra flooding, increased earthquake activity in Yellowstone, and a horrible snow storm season for my neck of the woods and then it's really time to worry.


Keyes: Pictures, Proof, Press and Pain?

A picture is worth a thousand words and one of the blogs covering this story has captured that. Unfortunately, I can't remember where I first saw the pictures - or I'd give attribution. Keyes himself has photos of him and his daughter Maya walking alongside each other in a parade in Naperville, Il. There are a few things to note -

These items are specifically called out due to observations I have made:

I say to notice the earrings because in all the pictures that show up that allegedly have Maya with her girlfriend Bria - she is wearing those earrings. (Including the one where they are kissing.) Thanks to LeeRoxxor pointing that out in comments at Chillinois.

As far as rainbows go,she has rings, wristbands, a purse and even her Yahoo Profile that she posts to her father's YahooGroups list for his reelection references her hobbies including "Rainbowing up the world."

Finally, the latter observation is quite personally and I daresay out of line. But I noticed it and I'd like to share it. Google currently has a cache from Maya's alleged blog dated March 22, 2004 that includes a meme survey and a post that caught my eye.

First, the survey:

TO PLAY I NEVER: PUT AN (x) IN FRONT OF THE THINGS THAT YOU HAVE
NEVER DONE BEFORE AND A (_) ON THE THINGS THAT YOU HAVE DONE AT 
LEAST ONCE. ADD AN "I NEVER" OF YOUR OWN.

(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN DRUNK
(x) I NEVER HAVE SMOKED POT
(x) I NEVER HAVE TAKEN ILLEGAL DRUGS
(_) I NEVER HAVE KISSED A MEMBER OF THE OPPOSITE SEX
(_) I NEVER HAVE KISSED A MEMBER OF THE SAME SEX
(x) I NEVER CRASHED A FRIEND'S CAR
(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN TO JAPAN
(_) I NEVER RODE IN A TAXI
(x) I NEVER HAD ANAL SEX
(x) I NEVER HAD ORAL SEX
(_) I NEVER HAVE BEEN IN LOVE
(x) I NEVER HAD SEX
(x) I NEVER HAVE HAD SEX IN PUBLIC
(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN DUMPED
(_) I NEVER SHOPLIFTED
(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN FIRED
(_) I NEVER HAVE BEEN IN A FIST FIGHT
(x) I NEVER HAD A THREESOME
(_) I NEVER SNUCK OUT OF MY PARENTS' 
(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN TIED UP (SEXUALLY) 
(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN CAUGHT MASTURBATING
(x) I NEVER PISSED ON MYSELF (ok, well, not since I've been out of diapers anyway!)
(x) I NEVER HAD SEX WITH A MEMBER OF THE SAME SEX
(x) I NEVER HAD SEX WITH A MEMBER OF THE OPPOSITE SEX
(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN ARRESTED
(x) I NEVER MADE OUT WITH A STRANGER
(x) I NEVER STOLE SOMETHING FROM MY JOB 
(x) I NEVER CELEBRATED NEW YEARS IN TIME SQUARE
(x) I NEVER WENT ON A BLIND DATE 
(_) I NEVER LIED TO A FRIEND
(x) I NEVER CHEATED ON SOMEONE I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH
(_) I NEVER HAD A CRUSH ON A TEACHER
(_) I NEVER CELEBRATED MARDI GRAS IN NEW ORLEANS
(_) I NEVER HAVE BEEN TO EUROPE
(_) I NEVER SKIPPED SCHOOL
(x) I NEVER SLEPT WITH A CO-WORKER
(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN FISTED AND/OR HAVE NEVER FISTED ANYONE
(x) I NEVER HAVE THROWN UP IN A BAR
(_) I NEVER HAVE PURPOSELY SET A PART OF MYSELF ON FIRE 
(_) I NEVER HAVE EATEN SUSHI
(x) I NEVER HAVE BEEN SNOWBOARDING
(x) I NEVER HAVE TAKEN A PILATES CLASS
(x) I NEVER HAVE JACKED OFF IN A PUBLIC PLACE
(_) I NEVER TRIED TO KILL SOMEONE ELSE
(_) I NEVER TRIED TO KILL MYSELF
(_) I NEVER VOTED IN ANY SORT OF ELECTION
(x) I NEVER HAD SEX WITH A RELATIVE
(x) I NEVER HAD SEX FOR MONEY
(x) I NEVER HAVE HAD AN ORGASM

The items "Have Purposely set a part of myself on fire" and "Have tried to kill myself" caught my eye, as well as the post following the list:

Tuesday, March 16, 2004

 this house apparently has no decent sharp knives
(they are not vegetarians i wonder how they manage to cut their meat)

and so i am reduced to safety pins and breaking open my razor to remove the blades

::currently playing: badly drawn boy, the shining::
 

Basically what I'm saying is that the marks on her arms in the various pictures, after reading these posts from what is allegedly her blog, made me think "self-mutilation" and self-harm. While many kids today experiment with self-mutilation, fire and such, (heck - I did when I was young) that combined with the suicide rate of gays and lesbians makes me hope that all of this attention won't push Maya over the edge should it prove to be true and that she continue to be dragged out in this building bit of media chaos.

I should note that these are my observations and while I'm posting them, I can't help but think I'm contributing to the situation. When I was with Attrition.org, we often mused that by having a mirror of Web site defacements, we were most likely encouraging script kiddies to do them -a viscious circle. However we also believed that our method of taking the mirrors and immediately notifying Webmasters of defaced sites did a service to those Webmasters and the computer security community at large.

So am I just being a media whore? I'd like to think that my analysis of this story was both nonpartisan and nonbiased. But what if this was Obama's daughter?? Would I have the same interest in exposing her? Is my desire to monitor and record what I believe to be a sociological and media studies event false and misguided? Should I just remove these posts and leave Maya alone due to my guilt regarding the undue invasion of her privacy this is causing? I continue to be torn.

Either way, I continue to hope that Maya's friends and family are incredibly supportive as this story develops and that she comes out of it relatively unscathed...returning back to Brown next year.

Better yet, if her parents continue their refusals to assist her with her college payments than perhaps the very blogging community that brought her story to public light can be the same to work with large groups to create a fund that will pay for her to complete her Brown education.

Things to ponder.


More On the Keyes Family

Today's a new day and thus warrants a new post to cover what's going on with regard to the story of Alan Keyes and his daughter Maya. Last we heard, Keyes was to address the issue at a press conference last night. A gossip article in the NY Daily News reported the issue and had a Keyes spokesperson state that he would answer questions about the story that night as well.

What's most interesting and probably most thorough is an Illinois Leader article about the situation. The tone of the article is....interesting. If you recall, I wondered whether the Republican party would tackle the issue or keep quiet about it since Keyes is their candidate. However it is by far the most thorough article thus far and sounds as if they want answers from the candidate. The article mentions several things of note:

I think the most disappointing revelation is that his daughter took a year off from Brown to work on her father's campaign. The fact that she didn't appear to be working with the campaign is what kept people from using her apparent lesbianism as a political issue. However I recall one of her entries stating that she was taking the year off from Brown but she was afraid that her parents would still see her as a lesbian at the end of the year and not pay for her to go back. In essence, this may mean she didn't really have a choice.

The fact that the Keyes campaign said the candidate would address questions about the issue at last night's town hall meeting only to have him brush them off with no indication of when he would discuss the situation is a bit frustrating. But perhaps they needed just a bit more time to strategize.

Finally, it looks like Maya has restored a bit more of her blog after the sudden paranoid "restriction" of all posts and then the strange appearance of a strongly anti-abortion message...which appears to be gone.All the appears now is some creative writing she's done including poetry and fiction - at least on the front page. I have yet to dig deeper.

I'm sure we'll hear from the Keyes campaign sometime today.

Update: 12:57pm ET - UPI has ran with the story and it's appearing in the Washington Times. Strange - they cheaped out on the info, however. It just mentions Politics1.com - who did a simple blurb linking to the actual sites that did all the work.

Update: 11:28am ET - 365gay.com, the site that first quoted Keyes calling Mary Cheney a "selfish hedonist" for her lifestyle has reported on the situation - it looks like the report is mostly culled from the Illinois Leader aricle.


September 27, 2004

Keyes and Sexuality in the Illinois Senatorial Race

So there's a story that has been broken by the blogosphere about Alan Keyes, (running against Barak Obama for an Illinois Senator seat), and his daughter, Maya. It seems that a smart blogger has put two and two together and discovered Maya Keyes' weblog. Various other sites have gone a step further and found sites of her purported girlfriend including one of the two of them kissing.

I'm torn.

On the one hand, I absolutely abhor the thought of this story being splashed all over the tabloids at the expense of Maya - she's only 19 and isn't really campaigning for her father; just making occasional public appearances with her family. She's not a public figure and has the right to her privacy & her own life.

On the other hand, her father has made some strong statements over the years that are incredibly anti-gay and homophobic including one reported in the Chicago Tribune about Dick Cheney's daughter, Mary, that would look incredibly hypocritical should this recent revelation prove to be true.

Two hosts with Sirius OutQ spoke with Keyes for four minutes Monday night in a nearby hallway. Their conversation centered on Keyes' opposition to gay marriage. Keyes said family is defined by having children.

"If we embrace homosexuality as a proper basis for marriage, we are saying that it's possible to have a marriage state that in principle excludes procreation and is based simply on the premise of selfish hedonism," Keyes told hosts Michelangelo Signorile and Corey Johnson.

...

"I have said that if you are actively engaging in homosexual relations, those relations are about selfish hedonism," Keyes said. "If my daughter were a lesbian, I'd look at her and say, `That is a relationship that is based on selfish hedonism.' I would also tell my daughter that it's a sin, and she needs to pray to the Lord God to help her to deal with that sin."

Who knows, based on some of the contents in the blog alleged to be Maya's, maybe he's already told her that.

Third, my parents and I were seriously not getting along and so we needed some time off from each other; the idea was that after a year of being a wonderful good helping-the-poor type person they would once again like me and therefore be willing to pay for my college I'm not so sure that part of it will work; despite the fact that I'm all about working for global justice THEY don't care about that, THEY only care that I am an evil dyke.

And even if I am a charitable dyke I am still a dyke who KISSES GIRLS and especially with the gay marriage thing going on now that's at the front of their minds. So I think I might get back to find out they still don't like me and I won't have a college to go to.

But sociologically it's another fascinating look at the blogosphere breaking a story before journalists and political operatives even catch wind of it.

Think about it, however - who would want to run with the story? The Republican party, (despite becoming more and more conservative since Dubya's election), made a considerable effort to place Alan Keyes as the Republican candidate to replace Ryan in the race against Barak Obama for U.S. Senator. I don't think they'd risk dissension in the ranks and send the Religious Right against Maya & her father to risk losing that Senate seat. I'd be interested to see if they keep their attack dogs muzzled.

And look how far Obama is in the polls.... AP reports a 51 point lead as of today. There is no reason for him to touch this with a ten-foot poll and even if he was behind - I don't think he'd mention it. One of the liberal blog sites that picked this up, Daily Kos, has been just as torn on bringing the issue up - the Democratic party has nothing to gain by making this into an issue and Maya isn't actively participating in her father's campaign so there's no basis for calling her a hypocrite.

I put my money on the media outing her. Someone, somewhere will write the story either to boost ratings or simply to make sure all the facts are out there for the people to factor the information into their selection on voting day. It remains to be seen whether this comes out at all.

Whatever the outcome - it will no doubt become a public story and for that, I apologize Maya. You are young and have your life ahead of you - and to be used for political gain whether positive or negative, is not fair. I hope your friends and other members of your family support you through this ordeal and that you don't let it effect who you are and how you see yourself.

Update: (6:55pm ET) When I wrote this piece, there was only one link in Google when I did a GIS search for "Maya Keyes". It's now the first of 57 entries in Google In addition to Daily Kos discussion, there is also a few aggregators that picked up said discussion, a link to Maya's alleged blog, and an interesting post from a Columbia Law student's blog that looks at the ethics behind "exposing" Ms. Keyes blog.

Update: 7:54pm ET - It seems that Maya updated her Web site. Very curious:

<Begin Web Site Quote>

  • In America today, more black children are aborted than are born.
  • A black baby is now more than three times as likely to be
    murdered in the womb than a white bab +y.
  • Since 1973, abortion has reduced the black population by over 25 percent.
  • Twice as many African-Americans have died from abortion than have died from
    AIDS, accidents, violent crimes, can +cer, and heart disease - combined.
  • Every three days, more African-Americans are killed by abortion than
    have been killed by the Ku Klux Klan in its + entire history.
  • Planned Parenthood operates the nation's largest chain of abortion clinics and
    almost 80 percent of its faciliti +es are located in minority neighborhoods.
  • About 13 percent of American women are black, but they
    submit to over 35 percent of the abortions.
  • Not to mention that Margaret Sanger (the founder of Planned Parenthood) was an avowed racist who wanted to sterilize +the "unfit," and Sanger's organization's members warned about the danger posed to the white population by the "black" and "yellow" + peril, and wanted to "purify" America's "breeding stock."

    <End Web Site Quote>

Strange.....doesn't seem like her words. I wonder if someone did, in fact, hack her site. Or if she attempted to throw people off from believing she was Maya by going to the extreme. Quite possibly, she tried to "get in line" with her father's views once the media storm happened. I wonder if anyone actually "captured" Maya's site before she restricted viewership. Chillinois got quotes but sometimes actual screen captures or HTML downloads are better.

I found the Web site of her alleged girlfriend - Bria - the girl in all the pictures we've come cross and she is a liberal, pro-choice anarchist. While Maya may be Pro-Life, such a virulent attack on Pro Choice folk on her site seems....a bit convenient.

Chillinois also reports that the "issue" will be addressed by Mr. Keyes at a South Suburban Event tonight. This meeting is probably the Southside Town Hall Meeting scheduled for 7pm CST at Israel Methodist Church in Cottage Grove, IL.

Update: 9:33pm ET - *sigh* I'll likely go to hell by the time this story is said and done with. This is my last update for the night. Kos reported WTTW has mentioned the story in their evening news stating that it will be brought up at a press conference with Keyes.


September 13, 2004

The Art of Hermes

Ever have one of those weeks where it seems Mercury is in retrograde? Oh wait - it is. Cheers to our fleet-footed god of communication. May he soon be back on track.

*sigh*


September 10, 2004

New Pictures of Will, my Son

I've posted a few more pictures of Will on his site. I've started calling him pet names like "Mr. Man" and "Squirmy Wormy". He's a great kid - I love him so much.

It's amazing how fast he's growing up. You don't really realize how fast they grow in just a week, let alone 3.5 months. Kirky has been amazing too. I'm in crunch time at work which is quite draining....and despite being back to work full time, Kirky doesn't wake me up at night for feedings or even when he's just fussing and not ready to eat. I'm going to have to make more of an effort here and have her either start waking me up or ....something, so I can take some of the burden off. Despite the fact she runs "OK" on 3-5 hours of sleep and I need 8 - I still need to contribute.


September 02, 2004

Rage Against the Kerry

I haven't posted these last few weeks because at work we're heads-down preparing to bring ourselves up to 900 published courses. But after hearing last night's speeches from Zell Miller, Dick Cheney & (not MY) Governor Mitt Romney, I had to vent my frustration and disgust.

One of the things that struck me during the DNC was the edict sent down to not attack GWB in speeches. There were a few swipes - but that was nothing compared to the anger, vitriol and hate coming out of the Republican Party against John Kerry. I'm going to see if I can dig up transcripts of all the "Prime Time Speeches" of both conventions, just to see how many times Bush is mentioned at the DNC and how much Kerry was mentioned at the RNC because this is just ridiculous.

Also, what is going on with this hatred towards the UN? It's OK for us to take advantage of sending jobs overseas to make more money and import cheaper goods from overseas to allow businesses to thrive but when it comes to International policy, we give the finger to the world?

"If you believe this country, not the United Nations, is the best hope of democracy in the world, then you are a Republican! " - Arnold Schwarzenegger in his speech to the RNC.

"Senator Kerry has made it clear that he would use military force only if approved by the United Nations. Kerry would let Paris decide when America needs defending. I want Bush to decide." - Zell Miller in his speech to the RNC.

I cannot believe people are supporting a party of such hate.